Romans 14:12

Have you ever thought you knew what was right for someone else? Maybe EVERYONE else? 

It’s pretty easy to sit on the sidelines and coach others through life, when we may or may not experience the direct consequences of our coaching.

Romans 14:12 “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.”

Isn’t it interesting how one verse can be used in so many ways? 

Some people use this as a warning verse to help others choose not to sin. 
[said with an imploring look to guide someone into truth] “Remember, you’re going to give account to God, so be sure you are REALLY SURE this is the right choice.” [followed by prayer and a hug]

Others use this verse to bully people into doing what they want. 
[said with ‘the mom’ look to guide someone into following my will] 
“Remember, you’re going to give account to God, so be sure you are REALLY SURE this is the right choice.” [followed by the “I’m just saying” shrugged shoulders and splayed hands, of course]

I think the most important thing we can do for people, whether we agree with their choices or not, is to pray for them to hear clearly from the Lord; and that they would then act accordingly. Not because it’s what we want, but because it is what God wants for all of us. 

If we cajole people into doing what we think is right for them, how does that show we are trusting God? We won’t answer for other people’s decisions, but they will. 

Remember what the verse says: Romans 14:12 “So then every one of us shall give account of HIMSELF to God.” (emphasis added)

– If you are upset that your pastor has opened your church and you think it’s too soon, remember- they will give account to God.



– If you are upset that your pastor has delayed opening your church, and you’re upset, remember- they will give account to God.

– If you are badgering your pastor into opening or delaying, and talking about them behind their back because they aren’t doing what YOU think is right, remember- YOU will give account to God. 

Let’s not also forget that the scriptures say this: 

1 Timothy 2:1-2
(1) I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men;
(2) For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.

This scripture says: FIRST OF ALL…before I cajole, advise, ‘coach’.

Take time today for supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks for your pastor and those in leadership. 

And just see if that might lead you to live a quiet and peaceable life in godliness and honesty. 

Unless you think that God can’t ‘coach’ others through life as well as you can. Then by all means, keep cajoling. 

Knowing that I will give account to God, I think that I will first of all pray- that is a great use of my time.